Thanks, Lacey--I really appreciate your response. I, too, tend to engage in fiber options (something that's become muscle-memory in the knitting or crocheting itself) and have felt/been disparaged by folks who don't understand exactly what you put forward. Everyone learns and processes differently. We "manual listeners" should get the word out that sometimes we can knit the whole conversation into our project, and remember it better than those who nodded off!!
Best,
Lisa
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Lisa Churchill
Director, Grants Administration
The Salk Institute for Biological Studies
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Original Message:
Sent: 04-11-2024 07:05
From: Lacey Rhea
Subject: What do you do during a boring meeting?
Hey, a fellow fiber artist! I typically will work on a fiber project of some kind - crochet, embroidery, macramé, whatever I have going.
I think it is interesting, albeit understanding, that there is a fear of talking about this openly. The reality is that doodling, fidgeting, and other muscle-memory type activities while absorbing auditorily is super common, and not inherently bad. I actually just had this come up for me in a class on "Effective Listening", and I personally took issue with the (in my opinion) outdated notion that this behavior is preventing listening when for many people it improves focus and retention. There are plenty of studies that explore this, particularly in relation to people with neuro atypical tendencies. The simple truth for me is that if I'm expected to sit still and listen to someone talk at me without doing something with my hands, I'm probably going to zone out - whether I'm interested in the topic or not. I do not do well with auditory learning and crocheting or something like that makes a tremendous difference in my ability to engage that part of my brain.
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Lacey Rhea
Research Administration Manager and Mentor
Duke University
Original Message:
Sent: 04-11-2024 05:25
From: Anonymous Member
Subject: What do you do during a boring meeting?
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Some of the same types of electronic clean up you listed.
Sometimes I knit, as it uses the same brain space as doodling. This means I can pay pretty good attention to the content of the meeting, even if boring.
PKT (Paid Knitting Time)
Original Message:
Sent: 04-10-2024 08:39
From: Anonymous Member
Subject: What do you do during a boring meeting?
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I hope this isn't too silly a question for this group, but I wanted to ask what you all do during meetings where you only need to half pay attention. I tend to stick to organizing files (tidying my desktop and download folder, mostly). What about you?
Regards,
Multitasking in Milwaukee