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  • 1.  What do you do during a boring meeting?

    This message was posted by a user wishing to remain anonymous
    Posted 21 days ago
    This message was posted by a user wishing to remain anonymous

    I hope this isn't too silly a question for this group, but I wanted to ask what you all do during meetings where you only need to half pay attention. I tend to stick to organizing files (tidying my desktop and download folder, mostly). What about you?

    Regards,

    Multitasking in Milwaukee



  • 2.  RE: What do you do during a boring meeting?

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    Posted 20 days ago
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    Some of the same types of electronic clean up you listed.

    Sometimes I knit, as it uses the same brain space as doodling.  This means I can pay pretty good attention to the content of the meeting, even if boring.

    PKT (Paid Knitting Time)




  • 3.  RE: What do you do during a boring meeting?

    CAYUSE CHAMPION
    Posted 20 days ago

    Hey, a fellow fiber artist!  I typically will work on a fiber project of some kind - crochet, embroidery, macramé, whatever I have going.  

    I think it is interesting, albeit understanding, that there is a fear of talking about this openly.  The reality is that doodling, fidgeting, and other muscle-memory type activities while absorbing auditorily is super common, and not inherently bad.  I actually just had this come up for me in a class on "Effective Listening", and I personally took issue with the (in my opinion) outdated notion that this behavior is preventing listening when for many people it improves focus and retention.  There are plenty of studies that explore this, particularly in relation to people with neuro atypical tendencies.  The simple truth for me is that if I'm expected to sit still and listen to someone talk at me without doing something with my hands, I'm probably going to zone out - whether I'm interested in the topic or not.  I do not do well with auditory learning and crocheting or something like that makes a tremendous difference in my ability to engage that part of my brain.



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    Lacey Rhea
    Research Administration Manager and Mentor
    Duke University
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  • 4.  RE: What do you do during a boring meeting?

    TEAM CAYUSE
    Posted 20 days ago

    I'm impressed you can do something that complex while in a meeting, Lacey! I've recently started using a couple of fidgets ('borrowed' from my kiddo) during meetings and that's been good for me. The fidgets don't really take any brain power, but just keep my hands busy so I can listen more attentively.



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    Simon Helton
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    Cayuse
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  • 5.  RE: What do you do during a boring meeting?

    SUPERSTAR CONTRIBUTOR
    Posted 18 days ago

    Thanks, Lacey--I really appreciate your response. I, too, tend to engage in fiber options (something that's become muscle-memory in the knitting or crocheting itself) and have felt/been disparaged by folks who don't understand exactly what you put forward. Everyone learns and processes differently. We "manual listeners" should get the word out that sometimes we can knit the whole conversation into our project, and remember it better than those who nodded off!!

    Best,

    Lisa



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    Lisa Churchill
    Director, Grants Administration
    The Salk Institute for Biological Studies
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  • 6.  RE: What do you do during a boring meeting?

    STAR CONTRIBUTOR
    Posted 19 days ago
    Edited by Darcy Hammar 19 days ago

    Hi Lacey,

    Thanks for your post.  I'm happy to "out" myself as PKT.

    I know there is at least one other knitter in this group, but I have no idea if she knits during meetings.

    I also teach "IRB" for my institution.  I have been lucky that my knitting in public has been well accepted. I let students know in advance that I will be knitting on Office Hour Zooms or during in-class presentations.  I make sure it's a pretty easy (both pattern and ability to pick up and put down) project.

    I usually find/see other fiber artists at PRIMR as well.

    Simon - it's all about muscle memory with what you see as "complex." I have been knitting for cough over 40 years cough and knit almost every day.  I truly don't have to think about it much.



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    Darcy Hammar
    Director, HRPP
    Rocky Mountain University of Health Professions
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  • 7.  RE: What do you do during a boring meeting?

    STAR CONTRIBUTOR
    Posted 17 days ago

    Is the meeting in-person or remote?   Is the information boring because it really has nothing to do with me or any of my staff?  Or is the meeting boring simply because the information really didn't need to be an actual meeting?   If I really don't need to be paying attention and I am not sitting at the conference table then I'll typically work on just about anything from responding to emails to creating new documents.   If I really don't need to be paying attention but am sitting at the conference table then I typically spend the time thinking or sometimes I spend the time looking at others who are also forced to sit there being bored and amuse myself with how they are dealing with it :)

    If I do need to be paying attention then I'll try to participate in some way, usually trying to get clarification of issues/concerns and possibly offering a solution or supporting someone else's idea.

    I had hoped that with the pandemic work places really would have learned better ways to have (or not have) meetings but unfortunately that hasn't been my experience.



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    Lorraine Bell
    Research Program Manager
    Cayuse Customer Alumni
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